For a long time, I thought taking care of myself meant eating well, exercising, and keeping up with my doctor appointments.

Then midlife showed up.

I went through menopause at 44. My body changed. My energy changed. Food felt harder. And like so many women, I responded by trying harder. Like a lot of women, I ate less, exercised more, pushed through.

Meanwhile, I was busy taking care of everyone else.

I’m a Registered Nurse with 27+ years of experience, and today I work with older adults in their 80s and 90s. That has given me a front-row seat to something I think about a lot at 61:

How I take care of myself now matters to the woman I want to be later.

I want to be strong. Independent. Traveling. Getting off the floor on my own. Carrying my own groceries. Playing with my grandchildren. Still very much in my own life.

And I want that for other women, too.

That’s what Women & Balance has become.

I help women in midlife stop putting themselves last and start understanding what their changing bodies actually need through nourishment, strength, menopause education, healthy habits, and learning to listen to themselves again.

No extreme diets. No perfect routines. No trying to become the woman you were at 30.

Just small, realistic choices that take care of the woman you are today—and the woman you’re becoming.

Because healthy aging doesn’t start someday.

It starts with how you take care of yourself today.

If you’re here, you’re not starting over. You’re starting differently.

And you don’t have to figure it out alone. Check out my coaching options HERE, free private Facebook group HERE or QUIZ below if you’re struggling around food….

👉 Take the quiz ….click here: What’s Driving Your Hunger in Midlife? …It’s the best place to begin!

“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do.” — Brené Brown.

CHECK OUT MY BLOG ON ‘Having the Courage to Change in Midlife‘
  • Working with Kathleen was the best decision I’ve made!

    I finally felt heard and was guided to make choices that finally improved my health. She helped me believe I could do it, and I did.
    Noreen H in Maine
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Our adorable Labradoodle, HUDSON

When I’m not helping midlife women, you can find me…

enjoying the outdoors, traveling, enjoying all types of foods (especially chocolate), reading, writing, knitting or walking our slightly anxious Labradoodle. We also love to hang out with our two amazing grown children, and run around with our energetic, handsome grandsons, Jack and Rory!